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Hurricane Harvey and our response...

9/5/2017

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by Gwendolyn M Plano
PicturePhoto by Mark Mulligan of the Houston Chronicle
In December of 2015, my husband and I returned from a family reunion, to find our home flooded with 36,000 gallons of water. It was a disaster we could not have anticipated or imagined.

Within an hour or so of our return, a demolition crew tore up walls, ceilings, and flooring. Furniture was hauled away, books and photographs were thrown in a large dumpster. Only two small rooms were spared, and they became the storage spaces for the remnants of the life we once knew.

Over the next four months, we lived week by week in different motels. The only clothes we had were the ones we had packed for our ill-fated cross-country trip. Compared to our Texas neighbors, though, we were very lucky. 

Like you, I have watched with horror as scenes of Hurricane Harvey’s devastation crowd newspapers and television stations. Those heart-wrenching images prompt this short piece, for I want to explain that what you see is only a small part of the story.

When the familiar is taken from us, numbness takes residence; we simply do what we can to survive, even though the will to survive may elude us.

All of us are accustomed to convenience, to the simple act of opening a refrigerator and finding butter for toast or cream for coffee. We are comforted by familiarity, of knowing where the toothpaste is or the group photo of our children. We are attached to our “stuff,” the chair we sit in or the pillow that cradles our head. We don’t think about these things; they are the everyday part of our lives that go unnoticed – until they are no more.

When our home is taken from us, it is the everyday unimportant things of life that suddenly become meaningful. These replaceable, common items capture our focus. It’s easier to be frustrated at a missing comb than the vanity that once held it. It’s easier to complain about the stationary that we can’t find than our desk that was thrown on the mound of broken dreams. Tragedy leaves our hearts barren of perspective; and, we manage through the unimportant details of life.

It will be a long time before the victims of Hurricane Harvey experience the comfort of familiarity. The rebuilding of their homes will stretch through months perhaps years, but the healing of their hearts may take longer. When the pieces of their lives return with some sense of order, they’ll discover that they can feel again, and they may have doubted it was possible.

What can we do? I am a doer by nature; I fix problems or at least try to do so. But, this is a cataclysm that I cannot fix. And, it hurts to know that friends are struggling. So, with them in mind, I send donations and offer prayers. To that end, I’m providing a charity link that I use when I contribute. Perhaps it will be valuable to you as well: Charity Navigator. Or, if you’d prefer to give to a small organization that will provide direct gifts to those hurting, you might consider this link: Rave Reviews Book Club.
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To all who are caught in Harvey’s clutches, hold on to whatever or whomever gives you comfort. This agony will pass eventually, and you will know peace. We are with you in spirit. ♥

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12 Comments
Jan Sikes
9/6/2017 08:03:16

Harvey's effects will be felt for years to come. But, on top of the already huge heartbreak, Florida is threatened with an even more massive storm. We must unite and put aside all differences and help each other. Love your post. Thanks for sharing, Gwen.

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Gwen Plano
9/6/2017 11:28:44

Thank you, Jan. I couldn't agree more. We are ultimately one family. Blessings...

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John Fioravanti
9/6/2017 08:56:18

Beautifully written, Gwen. It is a grim reminder for those of us who have not suffered this kind of experience to be grateful for our homes and our "stuff" that give us comfort and a sense of security.

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Gwen Plano
9/6/2017 11:30:27

Thank you, John. And, now we wait for Irma. We live in fragile times, given the changes in weather. All the best....

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Davy D link
9/6/2017 09:13:58

Seeing the pictures over here in the UK of the storm in Texas is heartbreaking. As you say, and have experienced, it is only when something like this happens that we start to re-appreciate the things we take for granted. Many blessings to those affected.

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Gwen Plano
9/6/2017 11:32:21

Thank you, Davy. It is heartbreaking, and with Irma fast approaching, it is frightening. Blessings...

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john howell link
9/6/2017 10:07:35

Your acts of kindness will be appreciated. You pryers are always welcome. You know what it is like to be displaced so this in an excellent post.

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Gwen Plano
9/6/2017 11:33:52

Thank you, John. As one of the many displaced by Harvey, you know first-hand the challenges and the sorrows. Stay safe, my friend.

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D.L. Finn
9/6/2017 12:18:21

Beautifully said, Gwen. This really summed it up perfectly: "the comfort of familiarity". It is heartbreaking to watch and feel helpless. The last few days the things that have been a challenge seem so unimportant when I see all those images and hear all those stories of real loss. Thank you for sharing links so we can help out!

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Gwen Plano
9/7/2017 13:06:45

Thank you, D.L. It is overwhelming to watch the struggle of so many who have lost their homes. I suspect it will be a very long time before they are comforted by familiarity. ♥

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Billy Ray Chitwood link
9/24/2017 20:38:01

Spot on, Gwen...So sad to watch the steady flow on TV coverage, and, with inadequacy, try to sense not only the harsh transitions of lives but the awful suffering...thanks for the links
Hope you can look in on my blog at brchitwood.com
My best wishes...

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Gwen Plano
11/24/2017 16:56:43

Thank you, Billy. I somehow missed your thoughtful response. I'm following your blog now. All the best to you.

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