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Final goodbyes and Easter

4/1/2018

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by Gwendolyn M Plano
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We all face them – the final goodbyes to loved ones. A year ago, my dad passed away and two weeks ago, my mom joined him.

Both of my parents had long and productive lives. Together and separately, they experienced the breadth of life’s sorrows and the not-so-obvious joys.  

For about twenty years, my mom was bent over, the result of a back injury and severe osteoporosis. She did not complain about this burden, but she did not like photos that showed her condition. This picture was taken eleven years ago and is of mom with her identical twin; the difference in height tells the story.

During mom’s last hours of life, she could barely speak  but she whispered, “I don’t know what to expect next.” I shared the documented cases of near death experiences and talked of the love that would surround her and how she would meet her loved ones. I also asked her to send me a sign from heaven.

A couple of days after mom’s funeral, my friend Nancy, a strong intuitive, called to offer her condolences. As I was sharing, Nancy interrupted and said, "Your mom is here. She is telling me that she can stand up straight now and her back does not hurt. What does that mean?"
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Stunned, I described my mom’s back condition, and after a few tears, we both knew that mom had sent her sign from heaven.  

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john howell link
4/1/2018 06:34:41

I'm so glad you could provide comfort to your mom and help her to let go of this realm to join a better place. Her sign of thanks is all you need to know she is well and happy. Thank you for sharing this story on Easter, Gwen. It underscores the meaning of the day.

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Gwen Plano
4/1/2018 08:44:06

Thank you so much, John. Her happiness eases my sadness. She now experiences what I've always wanted for her, true joy.

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Beem Weeks link
4/1/2018 09:18:01

Gwen, I am truly sorry for your loss. As you stated, we all must face these times. Death is as much a part of life as living. I firmly believe there is more to our existence than what we have here in this world. Thank you for sharing your experiences.

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Gwen Plano
4/1/2018 12:05:52

Thank you so much, Beem. Like you, I have a firm belief that life continues. Blessings on this beautiful Easter!

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Jan Sikes link
4/1/2018 11:53:54

What a beautiful story to share, Gwen. YES! She shed the heavy skins and limitations of this human body, but she's still who she was inside and still loves. How awesome that she could let you know. Hugs, sweet friend, and Happy Easter!

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Gwen Plano
4/1/2018 12:07:04

Thank you, dear Jan. I'm ever so grateful for her message. Happy Easter to you. Big hugs, Gwen

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D.L. Finn
4/2/2018 00:52:17

Thank you for sharing this with us Gwen.
It brought tears to my eyes...and a smile to my lips.

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Gwen Plano
4/2/2018 02:52:46

Thank you, D. L. A beautiful glimpse of life beyond life and I'm ever so grateful.

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Julie Watson
4/2/2018 01:28:25

What a beautiful thing, that you had a message from your mother. How wonderful to know that your Mum is not in pain any more.

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Gwen Plano
4/2/2018 02:55:18

Thank you, dear Julie. It was and is a profound comfort knowing that she is at peace and is whole. ♥

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John Fioravanti
4/3/2018 08:58:00

Thanks for sharing this uplifting post with us, Gwen, it is quite moving.

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Gwen Plano
4/4/2018 11:54:21

Thank you very much, John. Blessings...

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