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Remembering Who We Are

8/6/2026

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Hello, dear blog friends!

I've recently returned from a 4-day retreat in Sedona, AZ led by Anita Moorjani. It was entitled From Healing to Whole, and true to its title, each day was filled with exercises and discussions focused on healing and wholeness. It was a wonderful/magical experience. 

During the retreat, I didn't turn on the television. I didn't even call my family or friends, because my phone wouldn't work. It was meant to be that I spent time in silence. But, traveling back home, my phone began working. I learned about the Spokane fire, because my brother and his family live there. I got a text message about my doctor (and friend) who suddenly passed away. And I dealt with Sunday's traffic. I wasn't ready for the 75 MPH speed limit. I would have been fine with a 55 limit. It was overwhelming.

Time away from the ruckus of life offered a contrast that helped me appreciate what I had forgotten -- me. I too easily get caught up in the busyness of life - and the craziness. But being away, and not being able to use my phone, helped me remember. Which leads me to this week's poetry prompt.
Melissa Lemay gave us this week's Tanka Tuesday prompt. She asked that participants focus on an experience of forgetting. I've shared what the retreat showed me, but when I got home, and watched the news with my husband, something else emerged. 

My poem attempts for address a collective experience of forgetting. I hope you like it. 
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Have a wonderful week, dear friends. And may we all remember who we are. 😊
22 Comments
Dan Antion link
8/7/2026 04:02:42

That must have been a remarkable experience, Gwen. I share the hope expressed in your poem. I'm not sure we have to build a bridge. Maybe, like you, we just have to move to a place where we hear each other as if for the first time.

I hope you have a lovely weekend.

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Priscilla Bettis link
8/7/2026 06:10:16

I'm so glad you were blessed by the retreat. I'm even glad your phone stopped working for a while. Your tanka is meaningful, Gwen.

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Gwen M. Plano
8/7/2026 07:38:45

Thank you, Priscilla. It was a memorable and blessed experience. 😊

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Teagan R Geneviene link
8/7/2026 06:26:12

Such a trying time, Gwen. I think that speed limit alone would have done me in. Sending you a big hug. 🤗

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Gwen M. Plano
8/7/2026 07:39:52

So true, Teagan. Keeping ourselves in a calm, blessed place is a challenge at times. 😊

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Jan Sikes
8/7/2026 07:52:23

Oh, Gwen, what a blessed experience. My soul longs for that kind of escape from all the noise. But the contrast you explained shows just how embedded we are in the daily cycles of all the happenings around us. I am so happy you got to have that kind of disconnect and know your light is shining brighter than ever. Others will see and feel it.Love the insightful poem. Hugs!

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Gwen M. Plano
8/7/2026 14:39:46

Thank you, dear Jan. You would have loved these four days. Truly. Very life-giving and deeply moving. ❤️

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Tim Dittmer link
8/7/2026 12:10:41

It's good that you had such a nice retreat, Gwen. Your lovely poetry is so hopeful. I hope you deal with the monsoon as well as possible.

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Gwen M. Plano
8/7/2026 14:42:42

Thank you, dear Tim. All the pastures are green now, thanks to the rain. And it is 95 degrees outside, with a forecast is more rain later this afternoon. 😊 I love it!

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Liz Gauffreau link
8/7/2026 16:13:11

I couldn't agree more with the heartfelt plea in your poem. I'm so sorry your return to the everyday world after the retreat was so upsetting.

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Gwen M. Plano
8/7/2026 19:26:51

It was a challenging return, but quiet has returned. Thank you, dear Liz. 😊

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Thomas Wikman link
8/7/2026 22:36:23

You wrote a poignant poem. There is so much division now a day. I am glad you had a great retreat.

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Gwen M. Plano
8/8/2026 10:00:42

Thank you, Thomas. It was a special time - great folks and I learned a lot. 😊

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Annette Aben link
8/8/2026 08:04:18

God Bless us, everyone

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Gwen M. Plano
8/8/2026 10:01:20

Yes, yes, and YES! ❤️

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Yvette M. Calleiro link
8/8/2026 12:53:54

I love your poem, Gwen! That retreat sounds wonderful, and I'm happy you were able to experience it.

Yvette M Calleiro :-)
yvettemcalleiro.blogspot.com

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Selma martin
8/10/2026 03:55:09

Yes. That bridge, we need it desperately. We must help build it.

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Paul Cannon link
8/10/2026 08:10:12

I love silent retreats, I do take time to reintegrate before the freeways i know what you mean.

The poem - I can only guess, from looking in I get your plea though - fingers crossed.

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D.L. Finn
8/10/2026 11:22:27

Your retreat sounds amazing, Gwen. We all need that time away from everything. Sorry about your friend and the rest of the bad news that greeted you after. I feel the same as your poem, people live in such different worlds from each other. Xo

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Freya Pickard link
8/10/2026 23:55:51

I'm totally with you on no phone and no TV - it is releasing, isn't it? I found your poem heart rending ...

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Colleen link
8/11/2026 09:15:47

Gwen, that retreat must have been as close to heaven as we can get! It sounds like you had a lovely time. I hope your family in WA is safe. We live in scary times, but the only way out of this is to support our communities. Take care and be well. 🙏 💖

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Smitha link
8/12/2026 04:12:08

Hi Gwen, It's wonderful that the retreat helped you. I've read Anita Moorjani's book 'Dying to be me' about her near-death experience, and I found it interesting.
Your poem on forgetting is beautiful. Wish 'you' and 'me' would dissolve into 'we'.

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