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1/26/2025

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Hello, blog friends ~ 

I've another poem to share, based upon the prompt featured in
 David Bogomolny post. The theme is "The bittersweet, painful, or unsettling aspects of the past and its hold on the present."

With this theme in mind, I will share a childhood experience and then my poem.  

PictureBaby Gwen with Dad


Dad had both hands when I was a youngster. He was a hardworking farmer, who came home every evening covered in dirt and machinery grease. We children were his delight, and after he had his shower, he'd gather us together for games.

We loved one game in particular. Dad would pull out his handkerchief and make a mouse. We'd shriek with amazement as the mouse moved across his hand. I never understood how it moved - until adulthood. 

This short, 30-second clip demonstrates how you can make a moving mouse.
 

When I started grade school, Dad had a terrible accident and lost much of his left arm. He could no longer make the little mouse, nor could he do a lot of other things. At first he did not talk. He just sat and looked out the window, his arm propped up high.

Weeks later, Dad went back to the fields. He never spoke about the amputation or his limitations. And we seven children did not dare to bring up the topic. But Dad's decision to return to work forever imprinted on me how to face life's hurdles.

My poem ~
 
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​I hope you have a wonderful week. Stay warm! ❤️
32 Comments
ben Alexander link
1/27/2025 00:41:32

Gwen, your poem beautifully captures the weight of decision and the potential impact of scars. It seems to me that you’ve truly captured the heart of resilience in just a few lines.

Much love,
David

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Gwen M. Plano
1/27/2025 05:57:34

Thanks so much, David. I tried to do just that. 😊

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Tia Jain
1/27/2025 01:52:43

Beautiful poem!

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Gwen M. Plano
1/27/2025 05:58:02

Thank you, Tia. I'm pleased you liked it.

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Yvette M Calleiro link
1/27/2025 04:11:53

I love your poem, Gwen! Your father sounds like a man of inner strength and great love for his family.

Yvette M Calleiro :-)
http://yvettemcalleiro.blogspot.com

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Gwen M. Plano
1/27/2025 05:59:28

Thank you, Yvette. Family was everything to my dad, and his inner strength was astounding. ❤️

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Priscilla Bettis link
1/27/2025 06:15:56

I love how this poem honors your father and those like him with such amazing fortitude.

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Gwen M. Plano
1/27/2025 07:57:07

Oh my, I'm so happy you liked the post, Priscilla. Thank you for the kind words.

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Timothy W. Dittmer link
1/27/2025 08:34:16

Wondeful poem, Gwen! It describes how your father adjusted to such a tragedy in the best way possible.

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Gwen M. Plano
1/27/2025 10:10:27

Thank you, Tim. He was a soldier at heart and never gave up.

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Jan Sikes
1/27/2025 08:50:29

Gwen, I love your childhood story and the moving mouse. What a wonderful man you dad was. And what a difference between then and now and how humans respond to injuries such as his. He was strong and determined and instead of wallowing in misery, he went back to work. I love that so much and your poem is beautiful! Have a great week!

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Gwen M. Plano
1/27/2025 10:11:34

Thank you, Jan. I'm deeply moved by your kind words. ❤️

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Liz Gauffreau link
1/27/2025 10:56:00

I love this tribute to your dad!

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Gwen M. Plano
1/27/2025 14:45:54

I'm so glad you like it, Liz. 😊

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John Howell link
1/27/2025 11:01:12

A terrific poem describing the best approach to tragedy, Gwen. Thanks for sharing your family story. Your dad was an example of not giving up.

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Gwen M. Plano
1/27/2025 14:46:57

Thanks so much, John. Yes, he would never give up.

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Pete Springer link
1/27/2025 11:50:49

Having never been through anything like this before, I bet one has to go through adjustments mentally as well as the obvious physical challenges. I think your dad made the right choice to continue to embrace life.

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Gwen M. Plano
1/27/2025 14:48:24

Amazingly, Dad lived to the ripe old age of 97. No matter the health hurdle, he didn't give up.

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D.L. Finn
1/27/2025 12:22:39

I love this and your dad's strength. It shows the choice we have when bad happens. Xo

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Gwen M. Plano
1/27/2025 14:50:36

I'm so glad you liked this, Denise. His determination continues to guide all the family. 😊

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Annette Aben
1/27/2025 14:41:13

Soul freeing words!

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Gwen M. Plano
1/27/2025 14:51:01

Thank you, Annette. ❤️

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Jacqui Murray link
1/27/2025 14:52:15

What a daunting choice in that last line.

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Gwen M. Plano
1/27/2025 16:18:04

It is a daunting choice, Jacqui. My dad could have given up, because a farmer needs both hands. But he didn't let it deter him. His strength was phenomenal and has guided my sibs and me through the years.

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Daniel Antion link
1/27/2025 17:00:38

Thanks for sharing ths prsonal story, Gwen. We learn a lot from people and the way they deal with difficulty. Your poem is beautiful.

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Gwen M. Plano
1/27/2025 18:35:23

Thank you, Dan. I'm so pleased you liked the post.

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Thomas Wikman link
1/27/2025 20:52:26

I have not seen that trick before. It was a cool video. The story about your dad was poignant and powerful and your beautiful poem captured his resiliance well.

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Gwen M. Plano
1/28/2025 09:04:08

Thank you very much, Thomas. I learned a lot from my dad, as I suspect most do.

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D. Wallace Peach link
1/28/2025 07:37:52

Oh, Gwen. What a story of change, choice, and strength. I can see how profoundly your dad impacted your life through his love and perseverance. A lovely poem and tribute.

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Gwen M. Plano
1/28/2025 09:09:11

Thank you very much, Diana. Dad taught through how he lived his life. A man of few words, his actions spoke volumes. ❤️

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ben Alexander link
1/29/2025 01:11:34

hi, Gwen 😃

just wanna let you know that this week's W3, hosted by the amazing Jaideep Khanduja, is now live:

https://skepticskaddish.com/2025/01/29/w3-prompt-144-weave-written-weekly/

Enjoy❣️

Much love,
David

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Gwen M. Plano
1/30/2025 07:46:09

Thank you so much, David. I'll hope over to the W3 post. All the best too you! 😊

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Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms—to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way. ―Viktor E. Frankl, Man’s Search for Meaning


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