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November 22, 1963

9/23/2025

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Hello, dear blog friends.

What a week, right?! Given the tragic events, I suspect all of us are heavy-hearted, and though I wish I could make it all better, I'm not a miracle worker. None of us are. So today I'll share a memory and a poem that takes us back in time.

​Yvette Calleiro took the lead for this week's Tanka Tuesday prompt and invited folks to write a syllabic poem about a particularly impactful day. There have been a number of memorable events in my life, but I've chosen to write about one that was life-changing.

In November of 1963, I sat in a high school math class waiting for the teacher to arrive. He was usually very prompt, but not that day. Tommy sat in front of me and abruptly turned around and said, "Did you hear? President Kennedy is dead. Someone shot him!" He rattled on, but I don't remember what he said, as I was in shock. I got up and walked out of the class. Somehow, I ended up in the counselor's office. I don't know how I got there, but a short time after this, my mom arrived and took me home.

I knew very little about politics as a teenager, but I greatly admired JFK's work with Civil Rights. I couldn't fathom that he may have lost his life for standing firmly on the Constitutional principle that "All men are created equal." 

I grew up in the Imperial Valley, the southernmost tip of California, where more than 90% of the population was and is Hispanic. As a child, I longed to be brown-skinned with dark hair, like my friends. Instead, I was white with freckles and red hair. I never thought of my friends as less than me. In fact, I never thought of anyone as less than me. 

When President Kennedy was assassinated, my world turned upside down. That fatal bullet awakened me to the nasty world of politics. 

Given the recent assassination, I realize that not much has changed since the 1960s. People (and countries) still settle their disagreements through violence, and that is a crushing realization. These days, I listen, say little, and try to love my neighbor, no matter who he or she might be. As my mom used to say, "there are two sides to every story," and finally, I think I understand what she meant.  

Here's my simple poem:
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​I hope our collective week is one of healing. I also hope that you realize how what a gift you are. We may have never met, but through blogs, books, and personal shares, we've developed a  friendship, and I'm ever so grateful to know you. May this week be one of blessings on you and yours! ❤️
29 Comments
Balroop Singh link
9/23/2025 21:47:01

What a sad memory! When we are young, such incidents shatter our idealistic world. Yes, the world of politics is indeed nasty, Gwen.

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Gwen M. Plano
9/24/2025 04:30:37

Politics is almost an alternative world and can seem quite unreal - especially when tragedy strikes. Thank you, Balroop. ❤️

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Liz Gauffreau link
9/24/2025 06:11:35

I remember the day of the Kennedy assassination, too. It's been one disillusionment after another ever since. And yet, there are so many good, kind people in this world.

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Gwen M. Plano
9/24/2025 09:15:44

So, so true, Liz. Like you, I see kind people stretched across the world, and I try to keep my focus on them. ❤️

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Priscilla Bettis link
9/24/2025 06:55:11

Powerful poem, Gwen. Thanks for sharing it.

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Gwen M. Plano
9/24/2025 09:16:22

Thank you, Priscilla. I'm glad you appreciated it. ❤️

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Dan Antion link
9/24/2025 07:13:34

I remember that day, Gwen. Standing on the playground, we were rushed back into the school building. I remember not really understanding what was happening. I've had that feeling many times since then. I don't know why it's so hard for people to accept everyone.

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Gwen M. Plano
9/24/2025 09:20:29

It was definitely one of the defining moments for all of us youngsters back then. Like you, I don't know why people have to be so divisive. I'm daily shocked. Thank you for sharing as you have, Dan. Much appreciated.

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D.L. Finn
9/24/2025 10:26:25

Sadly beautiful Gwen. I was too little to remember that but always remember the adults discussing later.

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Gwen M. Plano
9/24/2025 13:42:40

Thank you, Denise. It was a devastating time and was soon followed by two more assassinations - MLK jr and RFK. ❤️

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Thomas Wikman link
9/24/2025 12:42:19

I heard of the JFK assassination for the first time at least 13-15 years after it happened. I read about it in Sweden. However, I have an older friend here in Dallas, who was there, he knew Jack Ruby, and his girlfriend was the daughter of the Dallas police chief, so I've heard a lot about it since then. It was such a horrible tragedy. You wrote a beautiful and powerful poem.

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Gwen M. Plano
9/24/2025 13:45:10

Thank you, Thomas, for your kind words and for sharing your experience. It was a very difficult time -- especially for the idealistic youngsters like me.

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Ange link
9/24/2025 12:54:27

That was indeed such a horrific day💔

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Gwen M. Plano
9/24/2025 13:45:40

So true, Ange. Thank you for sharing. ❤️

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johnhowell link
9/24/2025 14:56:20

I was as shocked as you, Gwen. I was in College and could not make sense of all that was going on. It was a very sad time.

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Gwen M. Plano
9/25/2025 04:03:10

Thank you for sharing, John. It was a powerful turning point for so many of us, and as you mentioned, we could not make sense of it. 💙

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Colleen Chesebro link
9/24/2025 16:34:22

I remember this time so well, Gwen. I was young, and connected Kennedy's death with my mother's passing. It's funny what you remember when you're young. I'm sending you many hugs, my friend. 💜

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Gwen M. Plano
9/25/2025 04:08:23

Thank you, Colleen. I suspect we, who were youngsters when JFK was assassinated, can recall details we usually would not remember. Time stopped for a while. 💜

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Yvette M Calleiro link
9/24/2025 18:59:23

Your poem captured that moment perfectly as did your prose. It saddens me that gun violence has become all too common in our country. Thanks for participating this week.

Yvette M Calleiro :-)
http://yvettemcalleiro.blogspot.com

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Gwen M. Plano
9/25/2025 04:10:20

Thank you, Yvette. Your prompt took many of us down unexpected paths. It was brilliant. ❤️

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Timothy W. Dittmer link
9/24/2025 20:36:21

JFK's assassination affected me too, Gwen. I was in high school too, heard about it during my lunch hour. One of my teachers cried a lot about it that afternoon and had us be silent for a while.

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Gwen M. Plano
9/25/2025 04:13:26

Thank you for sharing so personally, Tim. There were a lot of tears, and I don't think it was partisan. We were all in shock. 💙

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Pete Springer link
9/24/2025 23:17:26

Thanks for sharing your thoughts about violence, Gwen. It seems politics and violence fire people up more than anything. I figured out a long time ago that I wasn't going to debate people on either of those topics. Do we really think we're going to change anyone's mind by venting? When I'm frustrated with it all, I think about how I might impact my community rather than wasting a bunch of time arguing.

I was a little too young to understand what the Kennedy assassination was about, though I remember my parents being very upset. The hardest day of teaching in my career was 9/11. I was teaching second grade at the time and these impressionable seven and eight-year-old children came to school with those images fresh in their minds. How do you explain the unexplainable?

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Gwen M. Plano
9/25/2025 04:18:26

Thank you, Pete, for sharing so personally. I'm with you about debating/arguing with folks over politics - it always divides. I can't imagine trying to explain the horror of 9/11 to youngsters. But if anyone could, it would be you. 💙

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D. Wallace Peach link
9/25/2025 09:40:57

A sad memory, Gwen. I'm worried for our country, and unfortunately, I think things are going to get worse. Focusing on love is about the only thing we can do. <3

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Gwen M. Plano
9/27/2025 14:15:48

I fear the same, Diana. I try to stay in a place of love, as there is nothing more I can do. I think much change is ahead of us. 💙

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Robbie Cheadle
9/28/2025 10:53:44

This poem is certainly food for thought, Gwen.

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Gwen M. Plano
9/29/2025 07:50:55

Thank you, Robbie. Hope you find it edible. 🤗

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Melissa Lemay link
10/20/2025 16:32:01

A gutwrenchingly emotional tanka.

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