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A Healing Glimpse

12/17/2024

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​Hello, blog friends!

It's #TankaTuesday, and Colleen Chesebro has an interesting prompt of three Tarot cards. We are to use the cards as inspiration in finding our joy. 

​If you'd like to join in the writing adventure, just click on the above link and you will travel to the poetry site where you'll find instructions. Below are the three cards:
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​I don't have any experience with Tarot, but looking at the cards, some thoughts surfaced about a recent encounter, which I've decided to share. 

Since the mid-1980s, I've followed the research on the Near Death Experience phenomena and read numerous personal accounts. So, when I learned last summer that the IANDS conference would be in Phoenix, I lept at the opportunity to attend. 

There were many physicians and nurses at the conference, along with a large group of folks who had had a Near Death Experience. At each of the presentations, speakers shared their NDE and talked about how it had changed their life. At one of the sessions, the speaker led us into a very relaxed state through a guided meditation, with the intention or hope that each of us would meet someone on the other side. 

As I moved into silence, I expected to see my mom and dad, because I often feel their presence. But, it was not they whom I met. In this meditative state, I saw a man with dark hair, his head lowered in sadness. This man did not look at me, but he said, "I wasn't there for him. I wasn't there for him." Then he left. I instantly knew who this mystery man was. And just as instantly, I felt compassion. 

Three weeks after the conference, a distant in-law visited. I had felt frustrated with this man because of his weak work ethic and stringent religious views. But this time was different. I decided to tell him about my experience, even though I expected a negative response. To my surprise, the man listened attentively, and then with hesitation, he explained that his father had dark hair. He added that his father had deserted the family when he was just a child and died in a tragic accident a couple years later. The in-law acknowledged that he had no fathering. I listened and realized I had just received confirmation of my experience.

I believe that life is eternal. And whether earthly or heavenly, a loving embrace can be transformative. In the experience above, two people were changed. I let go of frustration and welcomed compassion. And, the in-law felt his father's regret and unspoken love. 

What does any of this have to do with Tarot? Images are suggestive and often stir memories. In my case, seeing the house card and the fairy card brought to mind the IAND conference. My two tankas reflect on that enlightening experience. I hope you like them. 

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Stay warm, dear friends, and have a wonderful week! ❤️
28 Comments
Rall link
12/17/2024 08:56:06

We are having a heat wave Down Under at the moment so staying warm is not an option:) Thank you for the background story to your two beautiful tankas.Enjoyed !

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Gwen M. Plano
12/17/2024 12:15:14

So glad you enjoyed it, Rall. I could use some of your warmth in our area -- mornings are in the 20s and afternoons in the 40s. That's too cold for me. 😊

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Eugi link
12/17/2024 15:17:47

Beautiful tankas, Gwen, and I truly enjoyed your story.

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Gwen M. Plano
12/18/2024 04:18:48

Thank you so much, Eugi. 😊

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kittysverses link
12/17/2024 22:18:06

Wow! Thanks for sharing your experiences. Amazing Tankas. :)

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Gwen M. Plano
12/18/2024 04:19:58

So kind of you to say, Kitty. Thank you. 😊

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Priscilla Bettis link
12/18/2024 07:16:40

Two fabulous poems, Gwen. You had an amazing experience at the conference and then with your in-law.

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Gwen M. Plano
12/18/2024 09:43:42

Thank you, Priscilla. The experience taught me a lot, and I'm all the better for it. 😊

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Jacqui Murray link
12/18/2024 09:19:59

That was powerful. You remind me to keep my mind open.

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Gwen M. Plano
12/18/2024 09:45:16

I'm glad you appreciated it, Jacqui. The experience truly altered my way of seeing. 😊

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John Howell link
12/18/2024 09:28:28

That was an amazing experience, Gwen. I'll bet that conference was excellent. You and I share similar beliefs on the afterlife, so I will remind you about the butterfly .

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Gwen M. Plano
12/18/2024 09:46:53

Thank you, John. The conference was wonderful in unexpected ways. And I suspect we do share similar beliefs in the afterlife. 😊

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Timothy W. Dittmer link
12/18/2024 09:49:58

Beautiful poetry, Gwen. Thoughts on the past can be heartwarming, or very disturbing, depending on one's past.

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Gwen M. Plano
12/18/2024 10:50:28

I'm so glad you liked the poem, Tim. And your point about thoughts is right on. Thank you for bringing that important point forward. 😊

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Annette Aben
12/18/2024 11:52:10

Tears choking up reading your experience, then flowing as I read what you wrote.

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Gwen M. Plano
12/18/2024 15:42:08

Sending a big hug, Annette. Thank you. 😊

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Jan Sikes
12/18/2024 12:03:54

Oh, Gwen, I could sit and talk with you for hours about this. Your experience at the conference is just confirmation that we never cease to exist. We just stop existing in the physical body. How incredible to learn who the man was and why he needed to share his message of regret. Thank you for sharing!

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Gwen M. Plano
12/18/2024 15:48:23

Thank you very much, Jan. The experience was both humbling and deeply moving. I suspect we could talk for hours. 😊

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Colleen link
12/18/2024 13:29:25

Gwen, what an experience! Jung said when we read the Tarot or Oracle cards, we tap into the collective. And what a great message you received. Thanks for sharing. I enjoyed your experience and the outcome. 💖

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Gwen M. Plano
12/18/2024 15:44:54

Thank you, Colleen. It was a very moving experience -- at the conference and then with the in-law. ❤️

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Daniel Antion link
12/18/2024 13:48:46

Your poems are beautiful, Gwen and I appreciate the backstory.

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Gwen M. Plano
12/18/2024 15:43:34

Thank you very much, Dan. I'm so pleased you liked it. 😊

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Thomas Wikman link
12/18/2024 20:00:46

Wow that is quite a story

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Gwen M. Plano
12/19/2024 06:21:13

Yes, and no one was more surprised than me. 😊

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Liz Gauffreau link
12/19/2024 09:05:40

What a remarkable encounter you had! I particularly like your first tanka.

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Gwen M. Plano
12/19/2024 11:03:18

Thanks so much, Liz. It remains vivid in my heart. A rare experience for sure. 😊

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Yvette M Calleiro link
12/20/2024 14:14:10

Absolutely beautiful poem, Gwen! I'm so happy you were able to bring peace to your in-law.

Yvette M Calleiro :-)
http://yvettemcalleiro.blogspot.com

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Gwen M. Plano
12/20/2024 15:46:52

Thank you so much, Yvette. I'm forever surprised by the blessings that come our way. ❤️

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