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A Family Reunion

9/16/2026

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Hello, dear friends ~ 

I'm tucked away in the small town of Idyllwild, in the San Jacinto Mountains of Southern California. It's a beautiful area -- perfect for a family reunion, which is why I'm here. My mom, had she lived a few more years, would be 100 years old today. We've a cake and dozens and dozens of her loved ones to sing Happy Birthday tonight. I'm sure the locals and the four-legged creatures will enjoy our song fest. 😊
 
Here's a public photo of the town.... quaint and sweet, don't you agree?
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idyllwild.com
This week's Tanka Tuesday prompt by Yvette added to my sense of family. She mentions National Hispanic Heritage Month and asks that we focus on our heritage. Well...mine's a bit complex. I'll explain.

My dad grew up in the worst of the Great Depression in Oklahoma. Mom grew up next to the California/Mexican border. They met in San Diego at the US Naval base. And I was their first born of nine. They settled in Brawley, CA - a farming area that is about 86% Hispanic. Three of my sibs married Hispanics, and now we all enjoy fiestas!

There were rules in our family's home. We were never to criticize anyone because of their skin color, their religion, or their income. And I've never heard any family member violate these rules. But my three very pale sisters and I grew up wishing we had brown skin like our friends. 😊

Today I'm sharing a poem I wrote a couple years ago. My excuse is the Reunion festivities. This poem tries to capture time. 

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​Have a wonderful week, dear friends. ❤️
34 Comments
Yvette M Calleiro link
9/16/2026 16:50:54

Beautiful poem, Gwen! I love that you've embraced your upbringing a bit into your heritage. Thanks for participating this week!

Yvette M Calleiro :-)
yvettemcalleiro.blogspot.com

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Gwen M. Plano
9/16/2026 16:55:23

Thank you, dear Yvette. Your prompt was a perfect complement to the Reunion. ❤️

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willowdot21 link
9/17/2026 00:23:29

Hi Gwen I love your poem and the wonderful feeling bof continuation. I hope you and your family enjoy the get together and celebrate your mum. 💜💜💜

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Gwen M. Plano
9/17/2026 05:15:44

Thank you, Willow, for the kind words and good wishes. The Reunion is a time of great reflection for all of us, as we remember... 😊

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Priscilla Bettis link
9/17/2026 04:18:51

Yes, it does look like a quaint town. Pretty blue sky, too. You grew up with admirable family rules.

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Gwen M. Plano
9/17/2026 05:20:47

It's a sweet locale, Priscilla, with little restaurants and artsy stores, surrounded by tall, beautiful trees. 😊

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Dan Antion link
9/17/2026 04:33:54

You have a lovely family, Gwen and you were raised by good people who knew what was important. I hope you and everyone in your family enjoys the reunion.

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Gwen M. Plano
9/17/2026 05:23:30

Thank you, Dan, for the kind words and the good wishes. It's a blessing to be with family and to celebrate what is truly important in life. ❤️

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Harmony Kent link
9/17/2026 06:57:02

Gwen, this is a beautiful post and poem. I truly hope you and your family enjoy your time together. Sending much love and hugs xx 💖

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Gwen M. Plano
9/23/2026 14:15:48

Thank you so much, Harmony. We just arrived home last night, after experiencing a wonderful time with our extended family. ❤️

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Jan Sikes
9/17/2026 07:57:09

Oh, the town of Idyllwild looks absolutely charming! The perfect place to celebrate your mother's 100th! What a heritage you have! And how wonderful to be raised in a home that didn't judge by skin color or money. That's perfect. Your poem is lovely! Thank you for sharing.

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Gwen M. Plano
9/23/2026 14:16:53

Thank you, dear Jan. We got home last night, exhausted but renewed in spirit. It was a lovely experience. ❤️

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john howell link
9/17/2026 09:27:20

A lovely poem. Wishing you a reunion filled with love and good cheer, Gwen.

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Gwen M. Plano
9/23/2026 14:17:36

Thank you, John. It was a great experience -- lots of shared memories and plenty of laughter. ❤️

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Joy Neal Kidney link
9/17/2026 13:13:50

Enjoy it all, Gwen! Your poem is perfect for the reunion.

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Gwen M. Plano
9/23/2026 14:17:59

Thank you, dear Joy. ❤️

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Tim Dittmer link
9/17/2026 13:46:27

It's nice you had a family reunion at Idyllwild, Gwen. It looks like a nice place. it's pleasing to read your lovely poetry. Have a great week. Happy heavenly birthday to your mom!

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Gwen M. Plano
9/23/2026 14:20:15

Thank you, dear Tim. There were several Vietnam Vets there (husband, brother, brother-in-law), so you would have felt at home -- especially if you like carne asada. 😊

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Liz Gauffreau link
9/17/2026 14:12:50

I love your poem! It provided a bright spot in my day. I'm glad you have such a good visit with your family,

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Gwen M. Plano
9/23/2026 14:20:53

It was a wonderful experience, Liz. Busy, but delightful. Thank you for the kind words. ❤️

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Pete Springer link
9/17/2026 23:15:49

Well said, Gwen. All the more reason to make every day count. It sounds like your mom had a long, productive life.

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Gwen M. Plano
9/23/2026 14:22:03

Thank you, Pete. Both Mom and Dad lived into their 90s and were active until the final moment. I hope to travel their same path. 😊

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Thomas Wikman link
9/17/2026 23:38:13

"We were never to criticize anyone because of their skin color, their religion, or their income." that is a wonderful family rule and it is so great that everyone followed. It sounds like a really great family reunion and your poem is beautiful.

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Gwen M. Plano
9/23/2026 14:23:04

Thank you so much, Thomas. My parents were simple folks, but their wisdom was unsurpassed. ❤️

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Selma Martin
9/19/2026 03:33:24

Happy birthday to your Mom dear Gwen. That’s bound to be amazing. and your poem is simply beautiful. The contrast is heartfelt. Thanks for sharing. Be well.

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Gwen M. Plano
9/23/2026 14:23:45

Thank you, Selma. I'm so happy you liked the poem. 🥰

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Suzanne link
9/19/2026 09:51:15

This is so lovely Gwen and I do totally agree ... I love the rules in your family home, we should all follow them. We spent our honeymoon in California, we drove from San Fran down to LA and then across to Vegas, I wish we had been able to go further south, maybe one day... enjoy the celebrations in those wonderful surroundings.... 💞

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Gwen M. Plano
9/23/2026 14:25:05

Thanks so much, Suzanne. We had a lovely reunion. Everyone had fun and the food was excellent -- carne asada with all the side dishes. 😊

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Paul Cannon link
9/20/2026 07:56:50

Yes, awaiting discovery, delightful poem Gwen.

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Gwen M. Plano
9/23/2026 14:25:35

Thank you, Paul. I'm so pleased you liked the poem. 😊

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Annette Aben
9/20/2026 09:38:35

so much love here... you an feel it

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Gwen M. Plano
9/23/2026 14:26:40

Love was palpable, Annette. Lots of hugs and laughter throughout the retreat days/nights. ❤️

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D. L. Finn
9/22/2026 08:47:34

I love your take and poem, Gwen. Glad you got some wonderful fa.ily time, it does look like a beautiful little town. What a wonderful gift to be taught growing up and like you I always wished for darker skin as a young girl. Xo

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Gwen M. Plano
9/23/2026 14:31:06

You made me smile, Denise. If you were like me, the only other skin color I had was red -- from sunburn. 🥰

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